Sunday, July 08, 2012
i just thought of a new topic to post an entry in this blog.
some times ago.
i was talking to a friend.
with a little angsty atmosphere.
after the conversion with this friend.
i realised, what u can do for a friend, might not be the same what others can do for the same friend.
i am willing to do this and that for this friend, he/she might not.
i am unwilling to do this and that for that friend, he/she might.
i guess this is might be even true to the extent where we can even share the same closest friend, but the amount of efforts we put in, the extra miles we are willing to walk for this friend, or the things we are willing to sacrifice for this same person, differ from everyone.
i believe this has to do with individual personality.
some people treasure this friend than the other, so more time would be spent with this friend.
some people treasure family more than friends, so more time would be spent with family.
some people treasure relationship more than friends, so more time would be spent with bf/gf.
some people treasure himself/herself more than friends, so more time would be spent alone.
it all depends on individual.
i guess there is no right or wrong.
because of this commitment issue, sometimes, ur closest friend is this person, but the closest friend of this person is not u.
it happens to be this way.
saw through it years ago.
kind of sad isn't it?
the person u claimed to be ur closest friend, isn't exactly a mutual feeling between u and him/her.
this feeling sucks.
to find ur closest friend, with mutual feelings, is hard.
some times ago.
i was talking to a friend.
with a little angsty atmosphere.
after the conversion with this friend.
i realised, what u can do for a friend, might not be the same what others can do for the same friend.
i am willing to do this and that for this friend, he/she might not.
i am unwilling to do this and that for that friend, he/she might.
i guess this is might be even true to the extent where we can even share the same closest friend, but the amount of efforts we put in, the extra miles we are willing to walk for this friend, or the things we are willing to sacrifice for this same person, differ from everyone.
i believe this has to do with individual personality.
some people treasure this friend than the other, so more time would be spent with this friend.
some people treasure family more than friends, so more time would be spent with family.
some people treasure relationship more than friends, so more time would be spent with bf/gf.
some people treasure himself/herself more than friends, so more time would be spent alone.
it all depends on individual.
i guess there is no right or wrong.
because of this commitment issue, sometimes, ur closest friend is this person, but the closest friend of this person is not u.
it happens to be this way.
saw through it years ago.
kind of sad isn't it?
the person u claimed to be ur closest friend, isn't exactly a mutual feeling between u and him/her.
this feeling sucks.
to find ur closest friend, with mutual feelings, is hard.